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	<title>Comments on: From the gut</title>
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		<title>By: Cole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:15:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post is so topical for me. Lately I have tended lately to ignore my gut because: &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;* I want to please clients (gregarity)&lt;br/&gt;* I don&#039;t want to turn down work (financial)&lt;br/&gt;* I don&#039;t want to admit I can&#039;t do something (pride)&lt;br/&gt;* I want to believe I can solve a clients problems (validation)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;However, every time my gut &#039;had a bad feeling&#039; it turned out to be right.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Some further reading I&#039;m digesting in my effort to listen to my instincts more:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; href=&quot;http://www.alistapart.com/articles/getting-to-no/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.alistapart.com/articles/getting-to-no/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; href=&quot;http://edu.blogs.com/edublogs/2009/06/should-we-all-be-saying-no-more-often.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://edu.blogs.com/edublogs/2009/06/should-we-all-be-saying-no-more-often.html&lt;/a&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post is so topical for me. Lately I have tended lately to ignore my gut because: </p>
<p>* I want to please clients (gregarity)<br />* I don&#8217;t want to turn down work (financial)<br />* I don&#8217;t want to admit I can&#8217;t do something (pride)<br />* I want to believe I can solve a clients problems (validation)</p>
<p>However, every time my gut &#8216;had a bad feeling&#8217; it turned out to be right.</p>
<p>Some further reading I&#8217;m digesting in my effort to listen to my instincts more:</p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.alistapart.com/articles/getting-to-no/" rel="nofollow">http://www.alistapart.com/articles/getting-to-no/</a><br /><a rel="nofollow" href="http://edu.blogs.com/edublogs/2009/06/should-we-all-be-saying-no-more-often.html" rel="nofollow">http://edu.blogs.com/edublogs/2009/06/should-we-all-be-saying-no-more-often.html</a></p>
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