Staying sane is important. Keeping calm under pressure is always preferable to going totally ape, even if you feel the situation warrants it.
The first one to yell loses
There’s a reason that yelling is often called “losing it”. Yelling shows you’ve lost control, it shows that you’ve lost sight of what it is you’re talking about. Yelling means that you’re trying to beat the other person, not win the argument or express your point.
If you start to feel yourself lose it, just:
- Smile
- Breathe
- Go slowly
There’s something much more compelling about a whisper than a yell. This wallpaper might help you remember.
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One Comment so far. Leave a comment below.If I lose it the first place I look is down the back of the sofa…